Out Of The Closet
After being married for over 19 years, you have to do something different to keep the spice in your sex life. So, I put my husband in the bedroom closet, and told him to pretend I didn't know he was there. I then preceded to get dressed in his favorite outfit (mini-skirt, stockings & garter, sexy bra, tight shirt, and high heels). I then brought in my bag of goodies. While acting as if he wasn't there, I brought out each item, one by one and doing something with each of them. For instance a new sex game, going over some of the positions for sex and things to see if I could still bend in certain ways. Of course, then saying I was a little hot so I had to remove some clothing while going through more of my goodies. Some hot cinnamon lotion was next, so I had to rub some in some very personal places for him to be able to taste later. Then I had to apply some temporary tattoos for him to find. All the while he's watching and getting very hot!! Eventually he came out when I said I needed some help with one of my purchases. Be imaginative. I could tell my husband obviously loved it by the way he ravished me when I finally let him out of the closet!! -Pab
I think candles are a must! They provide you with enough light to see, without the glare that regular lighting does. -Anonymous
My wife and I enjoy foreplay very much, it's actually better than actually having sex sometimes. It can last a lot longer and be more intense. It is very exciting with soft lights, candles glowing in the bathroom, nice easy listening music, her washing me and me her, drying each other off, taking time to caress and kiss each other. Then we go to the bedroom, give each other nice long massages with plenty of oil, enjoy more candlelight and music, always taking time to tease each other close enough to climax, but always waiting for the exact moment when we both can finish the night off and climax together, all together. We can spend 2 or 3 hours of heavenly bliss. -Anonymous
I love to try to turn my man on by giving him a massage with scented lotion, then slowly kissing his body, and caressing him with little tongue baths all over his body. Looking for those spots that make him go crazy, so crazy that he loses control and just devours me with his passion. I like it when a man takes control and only I can satisfy his desires. -Bella
Do a touch game. Both of you get naked, and for 1 minute take turns doing anything to your partner. The catch is when it's your partner's turn you can't move. The first one that moves loses, or do they???