Ideas For Spicing Things Up

His Harem
My lover and I had never done role-playing before, but we decided to give it a try. The "scene" was that he was a sheik with a huge harem and I was his newest wife. The role reversal was amazing - I'm the more experienced one in the relationship, but the idea was for him to teach me the ways of pleasure. Seriously one of the hottest things I've ever done in my life!! -Sarah

Phone Whispers
When you're far away from each other, like my boyfriend and I, it definitely turns me on when he talks dirty to me! Have him explain every little detail to you over the phone of what he's going to do to you when you both finally reunite. When you see them, you just want to go to the bedroom because the hormones are definitely raging! -Anonymous

Forbidden Pleasure
I like it when a woman is not afraid to show me when she is turned on and wants me. I like it when there is someone near, like in another room and she starts to touch me and wants me to do the same. Or in a movie theater, it's the whole "what if someone is watching" idea that turns something small into a great sexual experience when we are alone later. Through experience I have found that women will orgasm faster when they have the sense of getting caught. -Santos

What's Underneath?
I asked my secret lover to wear sexy red panties to work (we do not work together) and at 11 am to remove them and place them in her purse. I was in a meeting with my phone set to vibrate. At 11 am my phone buzzed in my pocket. I knew she had removed them. When I next received a message it was telling me how she felt, her first time ever without panties "in public." During the day we exchanged messages explaining our sensual thoughts and excitement at the prospect of meeting after work. When we did meet, it was MIND blowing!! -Anonymous

A Little Late Night Reading
I like to pick out a short erotic story that contains both male and female storylines, and then prepare the bedroom with candlelight and wine. We sit in bed tangled together while we sip wine and read our "parts" in the story. He reads the male part and I read the female part...it can get quite steamy and often we never make it to the end of the story...I like to pick out stories that have some of my secret fantasies in them. It gives me a chance to see how he might react and sometimes I get a bonus. Defiantly gives a new meaning to a bedtime story! -Anonymous