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by Brettani Shannon
Loving your man his way means keeping the sexuality boiling in your relationship. Below are some suggestions of things you can do morning, noon, and night to keep your man right where you want him.
In the Morning
- Wake him up with morning sex. He will spend the rest of the day remembering his early-morning rendezvous!
- Invite him to join you in your morning shower. There's always time for a quickie, and the shower is the perfect place!
- Spray on sexy perfume. When you kiss him good-bye, brush up against him so he’ll be left with the scent of you on his shirt.
- Wear something sexy under your work clothes, and make sure he notices it as you get dressed. It will keep him thinking of you all day!
- Smack his booty on his way out the door. Silly flirtation is a great way to keep sexual desire a part of your everyday life.
- Give him a long sensual kiss just before you depart. But beware! If it's too good, you might find yourself late for work!
- Wear lip gloss every day. Make it a kind he enjoys, and make sure it's tasty, not sticky. You want him to want to kiss you, not stay away to avoid being gooped.
- Unbutton your top buttons. Make it apparent that you are no longer dressed appropriately for work.
- Pick up a pair of Daisy Dukes to wear occasionally as end of the day loungewear.
- If you've got housework to do, make it so sexy that he will think of chores in a whole new way. Wear a French maid costume while you dust, or use dominatrix tactics to make him do all the chores! The classic position of scrubbing the floor is often all you need, though, to spark his fire.
- Play music he likes. While your man probably doesn't mind watching you dance to hits of the 80s, he will be pleased to know that you though of him when choosing the playlist.
- Wash the car in a tiny white t-shirt. Better yet, wear only a skimpy bikini. If you are going to do a chore like this, why not fulfill one of his fantasies while you're at it?
- Bake him some cookies. The smell, the effort, and the taste will please him thoroughly.
- Sit through at least one inning, quarter, or round of sports with him and actually pay attention to the game.
- Flirt with him. Bring him a jar from the kitchen and tell him you need a "big, strong man" to help you open it. Drop something as you walk by him and bend down as slowly as you can to pick it up. Bat your eyes at him from across the room. Bite your lip in a cute, girlish way, or just walk up and sit on his lap.
- Light candles. Even though they are usually thought of as a woman's thing, guys like them as well, and they are great for setting the mood for intimacy.
- Keep sexy things handy. Make sure he knows exactly where to find the sensual oils, protection, and other sex aides.
- Make him notice your soft skin. Exfoliate and use lotions to have the smoothest skin possible. He'll definitely notice when he feels your soft feet on his in the night, when he kisses your shoulder and tummy and thighs, and when he holds your hand. Soft skin is one of the things men love most about women.
- Invest in new pajamas. Throw out the terrible stuff (like that incredibly comfortable knee-length t-shirt with the teddy bear on it that you wear almost every night). There's plenty of sleepwear out there that is comfortable while still being sexy. If you need to wear a t-shirt, ask him for one of his.
