Wanting To Please
Question: All I want to know is how to make my partner want me more. Common request, eh?? Anyway, I am so in love with him that I want to do everything that pleases him. Thank you in advance.
Answer: Sexual confidence is the number one aphrodisiac for men. The more sensuality you exude in your persona, the more you'll notice the male sex will be attracted to you -no matter what you look like. For someone who already is attracted and interested in you sexually, some ideas would be to:
- Plan a long, sexual encounter and let him see you are planning it. For example, buy a silk scarf when you are together and say we will definitely use this "later." Or, let him see you go online and buy a blindfold or another sexual type product. While you're making love or doing other sexual acts (before the big event) tell him how this isn't going to compare to what you have in store for him on his big night. When the "big night" rolls around he'll be more than ready for it!
- Buy a few "how to please a man" type books and let him see you reading them. Men have always been around in my household. Whether they were personal friends or a boyfriends friends, I've always just seemed to be around them often. One time I received an package of books I had ordered. Well, excitingly I opened the package (which happened to be in front of everyone) and to my complete embarrassing surprise they were not the books I had ordered but a group of how to sex books. It was a hilarious moment. Well, rather then send them back I figured, why not read them, it couldn't hurt. >:) You can not imagine their reactions while I was reading it. I would look up to find one of them reading over my shoulder or another one just watching me while I read it. Even now when I want to tease my husband, I'll pick up a new book and start reading it. Just knowing that I'll do something new when I'm done with it is enough to drive him absolutely crazy.
- Find out what his ultimate fantasies are and do your best to recreate those scenarios.